Tag: self-control

From lifeline to noose: nine healthy habits that leave a Christian wide open to abuse

What is it about the patterns of being Christians together, that lays us open to spiritual abuse – both as perpetrators and victims?

Avoiding self-sabotage – four essential lifelines for the pastor

So, what are the spiritual habits for pastors, so that we avoid self-sabotage? They are all obvious, but essential. And in my experience, we need to re-learn these lessons frequently, and with increasing force over time.

Self-control – the negative kind, and the positive kind

We usually take ‘self-control’ in a negative sense. Not losing your temper, or not watching porn.  That’ s a vital spiritual standard, and we need it. But unless we add in the positive kind of self-control, it’s static.