Month: January 2016

Why minus four is greater than plus twenty: the curious maths of a growing church

We had about twenty new people at our newcomers event last time we ran it.  But in the week afterwards, a couple of church families warned me they might be moving away for job reasons. Still, twenty new adults in, four adults out, 20-4=16 – sounds like church growth, doesn’t it? Not so fast, young Jedi.

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It’s hard to say ‘no’- but it’s a leadership essential

Our church leadership is going through the process of developing a plan for the next five years, and setting some (we hope) Christ-honouring and ambitious goals for that period.  We are forming task groups, and working together to produce something for this autumn. I was trying to explain it to someone this morning, and I

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Stop running a ministry relay race: train more people

I can’t remember when I first heard the idea that Christian ministry is a relay race, but it’s a powerful metaphor: each generation passes the baton on to the next, and here we sit at the end of a line of faithful witnesses, passing it on yet again. It’s powerful – but I’m increasingly convinced

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The Basics: what Christians need to know, to grow

I’ve been preparing some talks for a short course called Growing Spiritually.  It’s designed to be quite intentional in giving Christians the habits and tools they need for a life-time of Christian maturity. Let me expand that. We are going to look at reading the Bible, praying, giving and fellowship – four essential areas for

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‘Don’t make me laugh!’ Is the Bible funny?

I’m not a big fan of the theory that the Bible is full of jokes. I was brought up in a church culture where Christian drama groups were all the rage, and they tried to persuade us that the man with the plank in his eye was a funny idea.  It wasn’t.  In the Bible,

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Church, Size, and the Rule of 10

We all get stuck trying to think creatively and clearly about a church or ministry. Imagining new stuff is hard, improving old stuff a bit easier, but staying in a rut is the default option. One exercise I use is called ‘The Rule of 10’, and it’s dead simple and really helpful. Just draw three

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That indispensible, irreplaceable person

Today I’m saying farewell to my PA. Loyal, efficient, intelligent, discreet – she is everything I’ve ever wanted from a personal assistant.  And today she’s finishing working with me, and starting a new chapter of service. I’m thrilled for her, even as I count the cost for me. As the team said our goodbyes to

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‘Just’ teach the Bible? Pause first

‘I just teach the Bible.’, he said, glaring at me.  In a tone that was slightly defiant, slightly challenging, and – if I’m honest, slightly intimidating.  Slightly arrogant, too. I still bristle, years later, as I remember the direct gaze, implying that he spent all his days either with his nose in books, or preaching

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My year without goals #leadingwithcancer

This was a hard one. I like goals – clear and purposeful, with a deadline, and milestones on the way. A plan without a date is a wish – you know the kind of thing.  I’ve used them for years – I mean, I’m no Michael Hyatt or John Maxwell, but I do think good

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“Don’t (mis)quote that Bible at me” #leadingwithcancer

I’ve had it with the Bible being quoted at me.  Or, to be more accurate, I’ve had it when I have the Bible misquoted at me. It’s not just tactless, it’s spiritually damaging, because it makes God seem to promise something which he doesn’t – and then we get angry with him for not delivering

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