Tag: self leadership

From lifeline to noose: nine healthy habits that leave a Christian wide open to abuse

What is it about the patterns of being Christians together, that lays us open to spiritual abuse – both as perpetrators and victims?

Avoiding self-sabotage – four essential lifelines for the pastor

So, what are the spiritual habits for pastors, so that we avoid self-sabotage? They are all obvious, but essential. And in my experience, we need to re-learn these lessons frequently, and with increasing force over time.

Self-control – the negative kind, and the positive kind

We usually take ‘self-control’ in a negative sense. Not losing your temper, or not watching porn.  That’ s a vital spiritual standard, and we need it. But unless we add in the positive kind of self-control, it’s static.

Put your own oxygen mask on first

It sounds so wrong when they say it but the flight attendants are right – if you’re travelling with children and the oxygen masks drop down, put your own on before fitting your kids’. Your instinct will be to help them, but if you conk out first, the kids can’t help you. And you can

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